Sometimes no matter how much you want things to be happy go lucky and you want to make yourself just be positive, things just hit you.
There has been some serious drama in my family for the last few months between personal issues and sickness among many people in the family. I am the one that is removed from the situation, I am the ears and rational between people. I am the one person my mother can vent to without worrying that I will worry to much. I live here everyone else lives elsewhere, I am not sitting with all this in my face at all times. I am living my very busy anti social life in Worcester while the rest of my family is on constant phone calls and text messages.
Today my mother told my brothers girlfriend that she needed to go. My folks are good people they have let my brother and his girlfriend along with her daughter and my brothers baby live in the downstairs in-law apartment rent free, only having to pay the electricity bill. Well the girlfriend who I loved like a sis, I have stuck up for all along and was the mediator when she was first in the picture, she has went a bit crazy after the baby was born almost 2 months ago. She is going out, partying, leaving the baby with Mike so she can galavant and live the “single” life since they are officially broken up but she is still living there. Then had the nerve to move her low class mother in with her downstairs. What the friggen nerve of a girl that my family has not wanted living downstairs, who should be kissing ass but instead is running her mouth to let her mother move in because she once again has man problems. The problems are only piling up each day. My brother sits back after stating he was wanting to move on, that he would not deal with her bullshit is now sitting there saying “we love each other”. Sorry my dear brother she doesn’t love you, you may love her but from what people said this is how she is…A player…of the girlie gender..She is scared that she has nowhere to go and will now tell him anything to stay with him. SHE is using him….Makes me sad.
So after hearing this story today my mom calls back to tell me Grammie G passed away this morning. Yes she was 93 years old but only in the last year had her license taken away and we had a huge fro her 90th three years ago…She was having TIA’s for the last few weeks and had cerebral bleeding and kidney failure. She got to see her kitty yesterday that they snuck into the hospital for her to see, she then passed today.
So on top of all other things I have been the EARS of my family and I am feeling a bit empty right now…