Well you are looking at a soon to be homeowner. The condo that we were very fond with last week was still as fantastic this weekend.
We went Saturday afternoon with the realtor and meet with Mike the Seller and his broker to discuss the details. The throwing the furniture in makes for a very nice added when we will be moving christmas week. Craziness I tell ya to agree to a closing date of December 21st just a mear 4 days till Christmas and COLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We got it for a fantastic price and our monthly mortgage in a price range that we are both ok with.
I am happy but anxious.. This is HUGE. I always wanted to buy a place but me who had a very rough start into my adult life, with always moving, never planting roots anywhere and not knowing what I wanted. Here I am with the most fantastic of guys in my life, we made this huge step to buy a place together and it feels great.
I don’t want to hear from one more person ” Are you two going to get married?” in a easy answer yes, we btoh have that intention, we both plan on being together the rest of our lives and we both are happy and motivated to move forward. But why does it have to be so cut and dry. Married or not Married. How about Happy or not Happy? As a child to parents who have both been married 3 times. Marriage in my world does not EQUAL Happy. yes both my parents are married & happy but they have not always had that. So why do people have an issue when people make a decision that they are happy together, love each other and are not having children that they must rush out and get married to prove there love to each other.
We will get married and may be in the next year when we can afford to wisk off to an exotic local and enjoy that. But right now we are lining up our future for success. Success being a home that we build equity in and later can sell to then move out west. We have a mission we have goals.
And finally we are HAPPY together. I have never gotten alone with someone so much in my life.
So I just want everyone to put there negative attitudes aside, to see that yes two people can be happy without the LORD and the Law seeing them as a union.
So yes we plan on getting married and yes I am sure I want him for life…..I am a one man women…I have one person that makes me happy I am golden.
Anyways I will post pics later
I am so happy for the both of you
I can’t wait to have a place I can paint and put holes in the walls, or more realistically supervise my handsome manly counterpart while he does those things.
I think it is awesome that you’re not getting married just for the sake of doing it.